Lovey,
Maybe you don’t need to change anything. Maybe you are perfect just the way you are. Maybe you don’t need to conform to the world, maybe they need to conform to you. There is something magical, mystical, about people who don’t fit in, the real wonders of the world see that, know that, and understand that.
I need to better understand you. You are not like me and that’s neither good nor bad, it’s just a fact. I need to be more aware of that, so I can meet you where you are. You don’t need help, or changing. We need to better understand the brilliant person you are.
I am thoughtful about who I surround myself with when I have control over it. More isn’t always better. It’s not about the number of people in your life, it’s about who those people are. Are they a value add, do they lift you up, do they embrace all of you? Seek those people, if only a few.
Your journey will not be about solving, or changing, it will be about embracing you.
You are exactly who you are meant to be. There will be lessons and growth in that, but the core of who you are is far from wrong. You are everything right. I see the amazing wonder in you. One day you will too.
Always with Love,
Mom
